Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Goodbye's are easier when God's by your side
Today we buried my grandmother. She passed away saturday night, and the past few days have been tough. But I have a serene feeling of peace because she is in Heaven with our Lord!! My grandmother was such a wonderful person, and her love of God showed through everything she did!! I love you Memaw, and I will see you in Heaven!!!
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
I needed this..
Today, Tanner and I got to spend time together.. alone. I know that sounds silly to most people.. heck, it sounds silly to me.. but I really needed it. Since neither of us has our own place there are always people around.. and that's not a bad thing, but as other couples can attest, its hard to truly be "you" (in this sense I mean you as in 'the two of you') in a group. Especially if its with parents and siblings. What is sad is that we didn't talk about anything profound, or important.. we just shared small talk and cuddled. But it is guaranteed to be the highlight of my week!!
That is probably the thing I'm looking most forward to when we get married. Being alone together.. Locking ourselves away in our apartment, and getting to be us, and learning what us is all about. I imagine lots of married couples tend to take being together for granted. Probably lots of couples in general do.. in fact, I know I have. Heck, last month I was taking it for granted.. but now, I am going to cherish and look forward to every minute we get. Whether it is riding in Tanner's truck, having the house to ourselves for a few rare minutes, or those wonderful days, like today, where we get to talk and nap and talk some more. :)
So, be alone together this week.. and enjoy it like you did when you only got that on a rare occasion!!
That is probably the thing I'm looking most forward to when we get married. Being alone together.. Locking ourselves away in our apartment, and getting to be us, and learning what us is all about. I imagine lots of married couples tend to take being together for granted. Probably lots of couples in general do.. in fact, I know I have. Heck, last month I was taking it for granted.. but now, I am going to cherish and look forward to every minute we get. Whether it is riding in Tanner's truck, having the house to ourselves for a few rare minutes, or those wonderful days, like today, where we get to talk and nap and talk some more. :)
So, be alone together this week.. and enjoy it like you did when you only got that on a rare occasion!!
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Sunday, February 27, 2011
frustrations
Why do we let the little things bother us? I didn't sleep very well last night, and I have been short to people, and bitter about stuff that doesn't really matter!! In the big scheme of things, does a bad nights sleep really matter?? No!! That is something small and inconsequential to God. However, my being rude, irritated, and angry does matter to Him!! When I do stuff like that, it doesn't show a good Christian way of life. I'm not letting God shine through all of my actions.
So I am changing my attitude, starting now! It's a beautiful day, that the Lord made especially for us.. and I'm going to enjoy it to the fullest!!!
Deuteronomy 28:10 NLT
Then all the nations of the world will see that you are a people claimed by the Lord, and they will stand in awe of you.
So I am changing my attitude, starting now! It's a beautiful day, that the Lord made especially for us.. and I'm going to enjoy it to the fullest!!!
Deuteronomy 28:10 NLT
Then all the nations of the world will see that you are a people claimed by the Lord, and they will stand in awe of you.
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Friday, February 4, 2011
satisfied with the present me
I took a look at the past year of my life today.. and I was pretty stinking satisfied! I have changed a lot in the past year, grown into a better version of me, and i wouldn't have it any other way!
February 17th 2010 I weighed 118.4 pounds. This is the month that i decided to take control of my life.. and start to change. I started to go see a counselor, and work through lots of personal issues I had. One of those issues was the stupid assumption that i had to be as thin as possible to feel good about my self! It honestly took a lot of confrontations, not always in the nicest way, from some very important, and some not so important, people in my life before i started realizing what i was doing to myself. I wouldn't starve myself.. but any time i ate I got really sick to my stomach. i was working out.. a lot, and my alcohol consumption was through the roof. However, February wasn't the thinnest I became.. once you start the downward spiral, it takes time to start climbing up the stair case again. Rock bottom for me was around 110 to 112 pounds, and I think i hit this around May 2010. I'm taking this assumption from the fact that all of my size 2 clothes ceased to fit, and would fall off fully buttoned. After March, I stopped weighing myself.
I started eating right, stopped working out all the time, and pretty much stopped drinking all together. Slowly but surely my blood sugar righted its self out, I slowly started gaining weight, and what I think is my biggest personal victory, I was happier.
I will be the first to admit that to do this, i had to stop hanging out with a lot of people, and pretty much change everything about my life style. I stayed home pretty much all the time, and only saw a few friends once a week. But, ya know, I like the homebody in me. I got to discover who I really was, and not who i thought others wanted me to be. I probably hurt a lot of people by turning my back on them, and for that I am sorry. but I had to do what i did to regain myself.
However, the thought that i wasn't pretty enough or thin enough was always in the back of my mind. Going to EMT school in June was a very integral part in my weight gain. Its not a bad thing, not in the least, I gained tons of self confidence, and learned a little bit about just how bad i was to my body.
For the first time in years I am healthy. I am confident in myself, and how I feel in my own skin. Today i weigh 131.3, and i have never felt better!! I'm not as skinny as i used to be, I no longer have super nice abs, and I had to buy all new clothes, but I like the new me. No, I love the new me, and I never want to go back!!
February 17th 2010 I weighed 118.4 pounds. This is the month that i decided to take control of my life.. and start to change. I started to go see a counselor, and work through lots of personal issues I had. One of those issues was the stupid assumption that i had to be as thin as possible to feel good about my self! It honestly took a lot of confrontations, not always in the nicest way, from some very important, and some not so important, people in my life before i started realizing what i was doing to myself. I wouldn't starve myself.. but any time i ate I got really sick to my stomach. i was working out.. a lot, and my alcohol consumption was through the roof. However, February wasn't the thinnest I became.. once you start the downward spiral, it takes time to start climbing up the stair case again. Rock bottom for me was around 110 to 112 pounds, and I think i hit this around May 2010. I'm taking this assumption from the fact that all of my size 2 clothes ceased to fit, and would fall off fully buttoned. After March, I stopped weighing myself.
I started eating right, stopped working out all the time, and pretty much stopped drinking all together. Slowly but surely my blood sugar righted its self out, I slowly started gaining weight, and what I think is my biggest personal victory, I was happier.
I will be the first to admit that to do this, i had to stop hanging out with a lot of people, and pretty much change everything about my life style. I stayed home pretty much all the time, and only saw a few friends once a week. But, ya know, I like the homebody in me. I got to discover who I really was, and not who i thought others wanted me to be. I probably hurt a lot of people by turning my back on them, and for that I am sorry. but I had to do what i did to regain myself.
However, the thought that i wasn't pretty enough or thin enough was always in the back of my mind. Going to EMT school in June was a very integral part in my weight gain. Its not a bad thing, not in the least, I gained tons of self confidence, and learned a little bit about just how bad i was to my body.
For the first time in years I am healthy. I am confident in myself, and how I feel in my own skin. Today i weigh 131.3, and i have never felt better!! I'm not as skinny as i used to be, I no longer have super nice abs, and I had to buy all new clothes, but I like the new me. No, I love the new me, and I never want to go back!!
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
sleepless in lubbock
I can't sleep.. maybe it is because i am used to sleeping next to Tanner.. since i crashed at his house the last 2 nights.. or maybe it is because of the 2 cups of coffee i had with dinner. Either way, it got me thinking.. about what I want to do in my life, and about what great people i have in my everyday life.
Christine is probably the best friend, and basically the best person I know! She is so supportive of everyone.. in their hard times, and the good ones too!! She has been there for me personally, more times than I can count! even today.. i got a little melancholy, and she sent me this "You are a wonderful, beautiful inside and out woman." how awesome is that?!?! she goes so much further than just saying you are wonderful.. or your an awesome person (which is about as good as I can do) Christine tells you something that you don't even know about your self, or something you may have forgotten. She just knows when a person needs an encouraging word or two, and has been my life saver more than she knows! She loves her God, husband, family and friends with her all, all the time.. and it has inspired me to do the same! There is no doubt in my mind whom I want standing next to me as matron of Honor on my wedding day!!! Love yew Christine!!
Magen.. how to sum up magen.. she is my sister.. soon by marriage, but its been that way since the day i met her. She is a straight shooter.. if she thinks something, your going to know it. And I love that about her!! She thinks outside of the box, and that really comes in handy.. a lot! She is a wonderful mom to my nephew and niece.. and i know she probably gets stressed out sometimes, but she handles things with a certain grace. She is always good for making everyone laugh.. especially if it involves registering for wedding gifts! Magen is great.. a true God fearing woman, inside and out! Love ya sister!!
Tanner.. tanner is my rock. In many ways he has been my salvation. I didn't know true love until he came into my life.. and I knew we were meant to be together in a matter of days. Things are different with him.. I know my past doesn't matter, and that he accepts me no matter what. I am free to be me, and to discover exactly who me is! Tanner is so full of faith in God, that it makes me want to strive to be a better child of God. Being with Tanner makes me want to be a better person, but he supports me no matter what!! Which is more important than I ever realized. Tanner is proud to have me on his arm, even if I'm in sweats with no make up (which is pretty often) and he always puts my safety first. In fact, he always puts me first. I want everyone I know and care for to have a relationship like mine. With someone that they love so much that they can't wait to see them, or talk to them first thing in the morning, someone that they can see themselves getting old with, and being okay with that picture.. as long as they are together in the end. Someone they would go to bat for 100% of the time.. no questions asked. Someone that you love, and that loves you back with such a ferocity that it manifests into a physical ache at times.. Because true love hurts, but it is a really good, soul touching hurt, that you never want to go away!! I love you Tanner Kyle, and I can not wait to become your bride!!
I want to help people.. I don't know how yet, but I know I want to make an impact in people's lives.. To save people from addiction, or find children forever homes.. or save marriages.. something that when I get to heaven I know I made a difference in someones life. Made life easier, or more meaningful for at least one person.. I believe this is what God has planned for me, and if I'm wrong I know He will let me know!
So, goodnight to the friends I have that follow this blog.. you are all wonderful, unique men and women.. and our God loves you so very much!!
Christine is probably the best friend, and basically the best person I know! She is so supportive of everyone.. in their hard times, and the good ones too!! She has been there for me personally, more times than I can count! even today.. i got a little melancholy, and she sent me this "You are a wonderful, beautiful inside and out woman." how awesome is that?!?! she goes so much further than just saying you are wonderful.. or your an awesome person (which is about as good as I can do) Christine tells you something that you don't even know about your self, or something you may have forgotten. She just knows when a person needs an encouraging word or two, and has been my life saver more than she knows! She loves her God, husband, family and friends with her all, all the time.. and it has inspired me to do the same! There is no doubt in my mind whom I want standing next to me as matron of Honor on my wedding day!!! Love yew Christine!!
Magen.. how to sum up magen.. she is my sister.. soon by marriage, but its been that way since the day i met her. She is a straight shooter.. if she thinks something, your going to know it. And I love that about her!! She thinks outside of the box, and that really comes in handy.. a lot! She is a wonderful mom to my nephew and niece.. and i know she probably gets stressed out sometimes, but she handles things with a certain grace. She is always good for making everyone laugh.. especially if it involves registering for wedding gifts! Magen is great.. a true God fearing woman, inside and out! Love ya sister!!
Tanner.. tanner is my rock. In many ways he has been my salvation. I didn't know true love until he came into my life.. and I knew we were meant to be together in a matter of days. Things are different with him.. I know my past doesn't matter, and that he accepts me no matter what. I am free to be me, and to discover exactly who me is! Tanner is so full of faith in God, that it makes me want to strive to be a better child of God. Being with Tanner makes me want to be a better person, but he supports me no matter what!! Which is more important than I ever realized. Tanner is proud to have me on his arm, even if I'm in sweats with no make up (which is pretty often) and he always puts my safety first. In fact, he always puts me first. I want everyone I know and care for to have a relationship like mine. With someone that they love so much that they can't wait to see them, or talk to them first thing in the morning, someone that they can see themselves getting old with, and being okay with that picture.. as long as they are together in the end. Someone they would go to bat for 100% of the time.. no questions asked. Someone that you love, and that loves you back with such a ferocity that it manifests into a physical ache at times.. Because true love hurts, but it is a really good, soul touching hurt, that you never want to go away!! I love you Tanner Kyle, and I can not wait to become your bride!!
I want to help people.. I don't know how yet, but I know I want to make an impact in people's lives.. To save people from addiction, or find children forever homes.. or save marriages.. something that when I get to heaven I know I made a difference in someones life. Made life easier, or more meaningful for at least one person.. I believe this is what God has planned for me, and if I'm wrong I know He will let me know!
So, goodnight to the friends I have that follow this blog.. you are all wonderful, unique men and women.. and our God loves you so very much!!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
one of those days..
Today was one of those days.. ya know, the kind of day you hope goes on forever.
I woke up super rested, and not long after Tanner came over to surprise me, because he got the day off! Best surprise!!
We had a pretty lazy morning, and I cooked Tanner lunch. But this afternoon we went to Target and registered for gifts!! Tanner bought me a coffee, and I had tons of fun getting to learn more about his taste and personal style.. I was pleasantly surprised to find just how perfectly our styles mesh!!
Later in the afternoon, we were told where to find a truck with a 2 in 1 light bar (i hope that's right!) Very similar to the one Tanner wants.. he was so excited!! We've been looking for this particular truck for weeks!!
We went home and watched a couple of movies (clash of the Titans, thumbs down; and letters to Juliet, thumbs up) drank coffee, designed invitations.. and basically had an awesome mini date on my sofa!
All in all, today just reaffirmed why I love the man I'm going to marry. And, why both of our pasts are just that, the past.
I know I always say that God has blessed me beyond imagining, but He really has. I met Tanner, and fell in love, less than 1 month after I finally let go, and fully gave God the steering wheel of my life!! It just goes to show how much better he knows what we need than we think we do!!
I woke up super rested, and not long after Tanner came over to surprise me, because he got the day off! Best surprise!!
We had a pretty lazy morning, and I cooked Tanner lunch. But this afternoon we went to Target and registered for gifts!! Tanner bought me a coffee, and I had tons of fun getting to learn more about his taste and personal style.. I was pleasantly surprised to find just how perfectly our styles mesh!!
Later in the afternoon, we were told where to find a truck with a 2 in 1 light bar (i hope that's right!) Very similar to the one Tanner wants.. he was so excited!! We've been looking for this particular truck for weeks!!
We went home and watched a couple of movies (clash of the Titans, thumbs down; and letters to Juliet, thumbs up) drank coffee, designed invitations.. and basically had an awesome mini date on my sofa!
All in all, today just reaffirmed why I love the man I'm going to marry. And, why both of our pasts are just that, the past.
I know I always say that God has blessed me beyond imagining, but He really has. I met Tanner, and fell in love, less than 1 month after I finally let go, and fully gave God the steering wheel of my life!! It just goes to show how much better he knows what we need than we think we do!!
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Friday, January 7, 2011
proposal video
So, I finally remembered how to post a video from my phone.. here is the happiest day of my life... so far!!
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